In recent days, spring is quietly approaching, accompanied by a burst of spring breeze, a disaster film called “New Students Entering Kindergarten” is being released.
Some parents may choose to send their babies to kindergarten in the spring. Babies who have never been in contact with group life may exhibit the following actions:
Some babies exclaim in shock, ‘Mom, don’t you love me anymore?’?
Some babies are eager to survive and cling to their mothers, crying and saying, ‘Mom, don’t leave me behind!’!
In short, every pore of the baby is refusing to attend kindergarten! The baby’s sad departure from the “first day of kindergarten” takes minutes to perform Qiong Yao’s bitter drama with the parents.
Kindergarten freshmen must undergo a mental “weaning” with their families.
Whenever they think of the inevitable heartbreaking cries of their baby, some parents feel that it is better to have their baby switch classes in spring than the scene of children crying together at the beginning of the new semester in September each year.
Many mothers also express their support for transferring to the kindergarten in spring~
Mom 66: Avoiding the Transmission of Bad Emotions
My daughter is a transfer student. I thought at that time that if dozens of babies cried together, they would be “scared to cry” even if they didn’t cry. My daughter will definitely amplify her grief upon hearing this sad emotion. So I chose to switch classes for my daughter and immerse her in a joyful atmosphere with those emotionally stable ‘old students’.
Mom Qiqi: Get more attention
My son is just 3 years old, but his self-care ability is not strong, so I think there are fewer students who switch classes in spring. The teacher may have more time to care for and take care of their own children. This can shorten the process of “home transition” and help children relieve worries and concerns.
Mom Yan Yan: Got an extra choice
If it’s spring, I think I can choose more classes. Before entering the kindergarten, learn more from the parents about which class teacher has a good reputation. In this way, I will be more confident in sending the child in. On the contrary, the entry season in September is uniformly divided into classes, without any initiative.
Mom Red: Reducing the Risk of Illness
As the saying goes, an eventful autumn! If autumn enters the garden, wouldn’t it send the baby into the “sick season” alive? Autumn and winter are high seasons for respiratory infections, and in addition, classmates at work may also bring infections. I still think it’s better to enter the kindergarten in spring.
But with it, there will also be some unfavorable factors.
When introverted babies describe themselves as “new classmates,” it deepens their sense of unfamiliarity and creates a feeling of isolation and exclusion;
Some babies may also be unable to keep up with everyone’s pace and feel at a loss during group activities, resulting in a sense of frustration and unconsciously losing their temper.
So whether to choose to enter the kindergarten in spring, everyone should also understand the baby’s spleen and check in advance for the baby~
In order for your baby to quickly integrate into a beautiful kindergarten life, you must also make the following preparations!
1、 Ability training for babies entering kindergarten
1. Solve bowel and bowel problems on your own
Generally speaking, babies can start toilet training after 18 months, while attending kindergarten is usually at the age of 3. Therefore, there is enough time to train the baby to use the toilet on their own.
You should know that teachers in kindergartens look after many children. If the baby wets his pants in kindergartens, it will cause roast from other children, which is not conducive to the physical and mental development of children.
2. Solve the problem of eating and drinking water on your own
Parents are always very concerned about the issue of eating, after all, some babies are still chased by their mothers, grandmothers, or other elders at home to feed their babies, but they can only rely on themselves during the time of eating in kindergarten.
So you must do this training well before entering the park. In addition, drinking water is also a big problem. It is important to teach babies to control their drinking time and not to keep drinking water.
3. The problem of falling asleep independently
Babies spend the whole day in kindergarten playing, eating, and sleeping. After lunch, they usually sleep for 2 hours.
Many children at home usually play wildly without sleeping, or they have to be coaxed to sleep, which will definitely not adapt after reaching kindergarten. Therefore, in the preparation for kindergarten, it is important to cultivate the habit of babies falling asleep independently.
4. Learn to express your thoughts
At home, parents, elders, and family members look at a baby and feel a little unhappy. The whole family begins to speculate on the baby’s thoughts.
However, in kindergarten, teachers cannot always pay attention to each child’s emotions and thoughts, so they should teach children to actively express their thoughts. For example, if you want to drink water, you need to say it directly, and if you want to pee, you need to say it directly.
2、 Baby needs to prepare for four things when entering kindergarten
1. Preparation of personal belongings
Personal belongings include school supplies, study supplies, and daily necessities. For example, use simple and safe learning tools and tell them their purpose.
In addition, prepare a small backpack that your baby likes (most kindergartens have dedicated backpacks), which can hold small handkerchiefs, water bottles, etc. that your baby likes.
2. Environmental preparation
Taking children to the surroundings of the kindergarten in advance to experience the atmosphere of school, visiting and understanding the kindergarten, and seeing large outdoor sports toys is beneficial for early adaptation.
3. Baby’s psychological preparation
Most babies experience separation anxiety when they first attend kindergarten, and they cry uncontrollably on their first day or even week of school.
This requires parents to prepare their babies’ admission psychology in advance, increase their familiarity and identification with kindergarten, teachers, and children, tell their babies interesting stories about attending kindergarten, and cultivate their longing for kindergarten.
4. Personal habit preparation
Collective life has a system, and parents need to help prepare their babies for kindergarten to understand the schedule and become familiar with the daily life of the kindergarten. For example, when to do something, they cannot let their own temperament go.