There are too many children who don’t know how to share. Belonged to his things do not want to give to others, do not belong to his things will also cry to fight. Mothers are always extremely helpless, mainly because most of their children are the only children in the family, on the one hand too pampered, on the other hand, they lack a partner to share. Growing up in such an environment, children are gradually self-centered, difficult to get along with others, and more reluctant to share.
Letting children learn to share is also very important for developing children’s cooperative ability. Cooperative ability is an important step in the socialization process of children. If a child’s socialization process is slow and inadequate, even if he is healthy, but the physical and intellectual advantages can not be fully utilized, eventually leading to emotional immaturity, not adapt to social life.
Mothers can’t help wondering, but can children understand the meaning of sharing? Of course, children aren’t without understanding. However, the way children understand things is different from adults.
I want to say, let children learn to share, is to let children grow up in the atmosphere of sharing, not to teach children to share. Sharing is not only a way of behavior, but also a virtue. Let children learn to share, the key is experience. Experience sharing can understand the meaning of sharing from the heart.
I will share in the game.
Playing is a child’s nature, so long as children have fun, they will not care about who things are. So as a treasure mother, can about the age of the same baby play together, of course, may not be willing to start, mothers do not worry, can slowly guide, prepare some toys for the baby to play together, the baby is attracted to toys, gradually will not be so “stingy”. If the baby does not want to play with other children, the mother does not have to worry, can play with the baby first, and then in the game excessive into other babies. Be careful not to be too compulsive. This can backfire. Babies may even dislike the shared child.
Two, sharing in reading.
Mothers know that children love to imitate, whether it’s the behavior of their parents, the pictures in animated cartoons, and related books. They also know that reading has an immeasurable and subtle influence on the development of children’s cognitive ability, observation ability, communication ability, imagination, creativity, and emotional development. Therefore, mothers in the daily parent-child reading of the choice of daily related to the baby’s picture books to share reading, in reading, but also subtly in their own language to tell the baby to share the meaning and truth.