Parents will say angrily when their children are naughty: “Look at what you have done”. Irony is a language form in a special environment, but for young children, what you say is “good” is so incompatible with your angry face. The child wondered: Is mother praising me or angry?
1. Example 1: Obstructing parent-child communication
Lingling, 3, is a crying bag. Every little thing makes her cry. Sometimes my mother gets upset and finally bursts out: “Cry, cry, cry enough!” Lingling cried even more out of breath.
It is unavoidable for parents to say wayward words when they are angry. Although parents will cry pitifully and comfort afterwards, improper vent of your emotions and even use irony to stimulate the children will only make the children more and more violent. It is difficult for young children to distinguish between “honest” and “irony”, so it is easy to mistakenly think that such a way as parents is a kind of comfort to others. If children really use your words, it is easy for others to mistake their children for lack of compassion and impoliteness, which is not good for children’s interpersonal communication.
Moreover, the crying of children is meant to get the gentle comfort and attention of their parents, but what they get is the mockery of their parents, which is also a hindrance to the communication between parents and children. Parents should have chosen a more gentle way. You can hold him and calm him down, then guide him to express his feelings, so that children gradually learn to find a more appropriate way to vent their negative emotions.
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Page 1: Example 1: Obstruction of parent-child communication
Page 2: Example 2: Irony of love hurts children
Page 3: Why can’t we say irony?
Page 4: Suggestions: Parents should use positive language to guide
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