The baby has finally gone to kindergarten. What should parents pay attention to? Let’s look at the “five essentials” and “five taboos” of the baby’s entry into kindergarten.
>> “Five essentials” include
The child has just entered the garden, leaving the family for a whole day, to see the family will be “coquettish” performance. Parents can give their children warm hugs when picking up their children, but they should still pay attention to insisting that their children walk home by themselves. On the one hand, children of this age can walk home on their own; on the other hand, insisting that children walk home on their own is also a psychological hint to children that they have grown up, which is conducive to the psychological maturity of children.
It’s a big family event for children to enter the kindergarten. It’s normal for a child to have a variety of inadaptable behaviors when he first enters kindergarten. In fact, children’s inadaptability to kindergarten life is often influenced by the environment and adult attitudes. It is suggested that parents and friends should try their best to keep the calm atmosphere at home after taking their children home. They should not over-emphasize their concern about their children’s admission to the kindergarten, so as to avoid causing their children’s nervous mood. Parents’peaceful attitude is that children quickly adapt to the good external environment of kindergarten life.
When a child comes to a strange environment, he will have some psychological pressure. The best way to relieve the pressure is to relieve the tension of the child. When the child comes home, parents should consciously guide the child to recall the joy of the day in kindergarten. For example, which buddy do you know? What fun games did the teacher take you to play? Adults share happiness with their children in a calm and slightly envious manner, which is conducive to building a good emotional experience for children and adapting to kindergarten life as soon as possible.
In order to help children adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children. Talk about a day in kindergarten, his new friends, his favorite stories to the children, and play games with them. These are very necessary.
There are many differences between kindergarten life and family life. Parents should take the initiative to understand their children’s life, games and learning in kindergarten, further understand the requirements of kindergarten for children, and actively cooperate with kindergarten. It is necessary for children to adhere to the requirements of “consistency” and “consistency” with kindergartens.
>> Five taboos include
Avoid “Sweet Water Waiting”
We often see parents picking up their children with a bottle of sweet drinks in case they don’t drink enough water in kindergarten. In fact, there is “sweet water waiting” every day, on the contrary, it will affect children’s normal drinking water in kindergartens, and in the long run, it will affect children’s health. We advocate that children drink boiled water, because boiled water contains trace elements that are not available in drinks and are badly needed by the human body.
Two taboos on “getting to the bottom”
The family’s concern is understandable when the child leaves for a whole day, but after taking the child home, the whole family surrounds the child to ask questions, which not only makes the child bored, but also strengthens the “maladjustment” of the child’s admission to the garden. Because children’s emotions are influenced by objective environment, adult’s nervousness and abnormal performance will directly affect children and make children produce anxiety.
Three taboos: indulgence and indulgence
Children often lose their temper when they are unhappy. Freshly entering the kindergarten, sometimes there will be “coquettish” or “play around” phenomenon. At this time, parents should not treat him sympathetically. They can use the transfer method to relieve the unhappiness in their children’s hearts. They should not “indulge” their children.
Four taboos on “snack compensation”
Some parents fear that their children will not have enough food in kindergartens. When they return home, they will have all kinds of snacks to choose from before their children. In fact, the result of doing so will make it worse for children to eat dinner, because there are snacks to supplement every day, and children will “leave room” for dinner in kindergarten, which will affect their health for a long time.
Five taboos on “partial listening and partial belief”
Parents are not confident about the children who have just entered the kindergarten and will ask many questions to the children. Because children at this stage often confuse imagination with reality, they will give answers that do not match the facts. For example, when something unpleasant happens between children, he often says, “Some child hit me.” In this case, parents should not “listen biased”. In addition, when children answer questions, they often use the end of the question as the answer. For example, adults ask, “Did you wet your pants today?” The child answers, “Diaper your pants.” Question: “Are you full?” Answer: “Not full.” Accordingly, parents are advised to communicate with teachers more, so as to objectively understand the situation of children in the garden, so as to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.