Some parents like to use an accusatory or imperative tone when communicating with their children, which is often difficult for their children to accept. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children, so that their children understand his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry, fear. Parents, the next time you’re mad at a child, try these methods.
1. Learn more about children.
While busy with their livelihoods, parents must take time to learn more about their children, communicate more with their children, nannies and their teachers, and try to have a comprehensive grasp of their children’s performance in kindergartens and families. One more point of understanding, one less misunderstanding. In this way, once the children are really disobedient, they can understand how to guide their children.
2. Absorb educational knowledge.
Society is changing, and the environment in which children grow up is changing, so the way of rearing naturally needs to be constantly improved. As a parent, we must take the initiative to absorb the new knowledge of education. In the traditional way of parent-child education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authority education. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents jump out of their own growth experience and adjust their educational ideas in time.
3, listen to your children patiently.
If the parents are impatient, in the face of children who do not listen to discipline, usually the most direct response is to curse. At this point, experts advise parents to calm down, try to be more patient and ask their children why they do so. When the parent’s mind is already focused on understanding the child’s thoughts and trying to help the child solve the problem, it may be found that the child’s behavior is excusable, and has released a lot of negative emotions.
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First page: learn more about children
The second page: really put down the figure.
Third pages: no matter how to teach children when they are angry.
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