Some parents may notice that babies become more self-conscious and socially inclined after almost one year of age. But some parents also feel depressed. Why do children always push and beat people when they play with other children? There is even a baby who can talk again for a month. Suddenly, he will shout at his little partner. These behaviors are called child aggression in terms of child rearing. This kind of behavior refers to when the child’s existing needs are not met, or his own situation or rights are “infringed” by what he thinks, there will be verbal or physical attacks on small partners, for example, children to beat, push, kick, bite, shout, swear, snatch and other attacks.
However, when the baby’s aggressive behavior appears, some parents are quite “calm” and feel that the child is still young, just playful. Some parents are anxious about their babies’behavior and wonder how to guide them to avoid it.
First we need to understand the adverse effects of aggressive behavior. Young children’s aggressive behavior is not only harmful to their physical and mental health, but also hinders the development of their sociality. In fact, this early aggressive behavior is a passive and problematic behavior, and it is not advocated, let alone ignored. Therefore, those parents who show “calm” must be aware that such aggressive behavior of young children can even lay a foreshadowing for future aggression, bullying, injury to others, and will have a great impact on adolescence, adulthood. Therefore, we must face up to and attach importance to this kind of aggressive behavior, timely adopt scientific and correct methods to effectively respond to guide the baby away from violence and aggression.
The three factors that affect the baby’s behavior are physiology, family and environment. These three factors go through the details of the baby’s life. If parents do not pay attention to these links correctly guide the baby, then the baby’s aggressive behavior will intensify, may cause lifelong irreparable mistakes and regrets.
Boys are more aggressive than women’s treasure. According to relevant studies, the level of aggressive tendencies and androgen secretion is related to some physiological characteristics of the baby will have an impact on the performance of aggressive behavior. So to a certain extent, male babies are more aggressive than female babies.
The impact of domestic violence. Babies are very sensitive to their environment, and will be affected by their parents’ behaviors. If parents often treat their babies with a slanting and scolding but light preaching education, and they are likely to use violence against their babies, then babies will treat other children in the same way. Parents are children’s first teachers, is the baby’s earliest imitated object, so the violence of parents will be imitated by the baby.
But because the baby is often taught by parents, and because of their young age and lack of cognitive ability, over time this violence will produce resistance, and then transferred to other children out of breath. Over time, there will be a certain psychological shadow, and bury the curse of violence and attack.
Group environment impact. Children usually begin to receive pre-school education when they reach the age of 3. Kindergarten is one of the important places for preschool children to live and grow. In kindergartens, the teacher’s behavior has a great impact on the baby. If the teacher has negative behavior such as abuse, violence and other factors, then the child’s physical and mental harm and impact will be serious, to a certain extent, will also contribute to the child’s aggressive behavior.
Therefore, when your baby has a habit of aggressive behavior do not despise, should seriously check and correct the above three factors. If your baby does not find aggressive behavior, also pay attention to the impact of these three factors on the child, prevention in the future.
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