When pregnant, the old people at home often tell us that we must sit well in the puerperal period and never cry, or we will easily fall ill. But for many mothers who have experienced a month, the puerperium is really a retrospect, which is bitter tears!
Ruirui Rui: before giving birth to a baby, I always feel like a woman man. Even after giving birth to a baby, I can’t cry. However, only a few hours after giving birth to a baby, I cried inexplicably, either pretentiously or irresistibly!
Cat eating fish: after giving birth to a baby, my husband came back from a business trip in the middle of the night. The whole family asked me to advise him to go home and rest, saying that he was hard-working on a business trip and could not help me here. At that time, I felt so aggrieved that tears fell down unconsciously
Dorothy: it’s only half a day since the baby was born. I still can’t nurse. The nurse has been guiding me, but the old man at home has always said, “baby, your mother doesn’t have milk. She’s going to be hungry.”. I was in a hurry at that time. I was even more aggrieved when I heard this
There is a mother said that it is basically impossible to say that the puerperal period does not cry at all! Because every day there are all kinds of bad things, even a small thing is enough to make tears fall, every day there are 1000 reasons to cry. In fact, there is also a reason why mothers often want to shed tears in the month. Only by taking good care of mothers’ feelings can mothers shed less tears in the month.
Why do novice mothers cry so much in the month?
Accession Contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Most new mothers take care of their mother-in-law in the first month, and their husbands are often not at home. The first month is the outbreak of conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different living habits and education methods, and even if they don’t understand each other, they won’t directly say that lack of communication leads to more and more conflicts.
Tips: dad should do a good job in communication, guide his mother to release pressure, and explain his mother’s habits.
Accession Not enough milk
The mother also hopes that the baby can eat and drink enough, the baby does not eat enough, the most worried about the uncomfortable nature is the mother. However, the family will not have the responsibility of milk to the mother, the mother will be very aggrieved.
Tips: more sucking is good for milk secretion. If the baby is not around the hospital, the mother can use a breast pump to squeeze out milk.
Accession Feeding pain
There is a kind of pain called feeding pain! Many mothers said that the baby didn’t cry, but the nurse cried! In the first week of feeding, the nipple was sucked up with blood blisters. When it was severe, it cracked several large blood holes. All day long, the baby had to continue feeding. The pain was too hard to bear.
Tips: breastfeeding is a kind of instinct, but it also requires new mothers to master the method, master the correct breastfeeding posture to make breastfeeding easier.
Accession Tired of taking baby
During the period of the first month, the mother had to nurse and coax her to sleep, but no one came to take care of her. It was so desperate to cry! Although the mother and the baby basically stay together during the puerperal period, they can’t put all the responsibility of baby care on the mother.
Tips: no one is born with a baby. Dad has to change roles. Quickly adapt to the status quo that he has become a father. If you touch your baby more, he will like you! Coax to sleep such a thing, Dad can also do well.
Novice mothers on the road, all kinds of trouble, coupled with the impact of hormones in the body, crying is also a common thing. No mother is willing to cry in the puerperal period. She needs more care and understanding from her family. Novice mothers also need to pay attention to the fact that crying often during the month is not only bad for the recovery of the body, but also affects the milk secretion and the baby’s mood.
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