Since ancient times, it has become a habit for mother-in-law to accompany daughter-in-law during puerperium. However, with the development of the times, new and old ideas are constantly impacting. Moon science is becoming more and more popular with mothers. After all, the older generation’s puerperium is really unreasonable and unbearable.
In recent days, a friend of mine is about to give birth, and she and her family have been stuck in a stalemate over where to puerperium. Friends feel that they need to stay at home during puerperium, invite their sisters-in-law, and make a menu. My friend’s mother-in-law insisted that she go back to her mother-in-law’s home in the countryside during puerperium, and nearly 100 moonlit chickens have been raised. Friends’husbands are really in a dilemma.
I believe there are not a few expectant mothers who are unwilling to return to their mother-in-law’s home during puerperium, such as friends. However, would you please ask your sister-in-law for sure? Let’s see what the netizens say first.
@ Cheng Ruo Mimi: My sister-in-law is certainly not as good as my mother-in-law. After all, this is my mother-in-law’s grandson. My mother-in-law is a more open-minded person, not stereotyped, everything is very easy to discuss. And the news exposure so many months of child abuse by wives, think about it painfully.
@ kttymm: My monthly sister-in-law will be more expensive in the regular monthly sister-in-law company. Overall, the experience is good. Mother-in-law will come up to help when she has time. Generally speaking, it’s easier. There are many kinds of food in the month, and her appetite will be better.
@ Miao Miao s: In the month, I also invited my sister-in-law, mainly for fear of being persecuted by the unscientific moon. However, very helpless, feeling is not good, the month sister-in-law invited to do things more confused, so my mother-in-law often fragmented.
I think about it carefully, mother-in-law and sister-in-law, who is better? There is no final conclusion. They have their own advantages and disadvantages.
Mother-in-law——
Li:
Mother-in-law, as a member of the family, will devote herself to everything and give guidance to her mother in time so that her mother will not take detours on the way of child-rearing. Mother’s convenience in diet, fresh food and nutrition are sufficient guarantee, mother-in-law help, but also conducive to promoting the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Disadvantages:
If the mother-in-law is old-fashioned and stubborn, she is unwilling to listen to her opinions. During the month, mothers and mothers-in-law are prone to conflict because of taking care of their babies, causing conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. Father is also difficult to be a man, affecting family harmony.
Moon sister-in-law——
Li:
Regular Yuewei company has special training courses. Yuewei is familiar with scientific parenting, and has a good understanding of maternal physical and psychological stages. She will give timely help according to her mother’s actual situation. It is conducive to calming the mood of the parturient. And will do scientific nutrition monthly meal, help mother’s body recovery.
Disadvantages:
Good mothers-in-law are expensive; if you don’t consult with your family beforehand, it’s easy to bury the roots of family disputes. Moreover, Yuesao is only a job, not necessarily very conscientious, and relative to her mother-in-law, less intimacy.
In view of the advantages and disadvantages, I think that whether you invite your wife or not or return to your mother-in-law’s home during puerperium is secondary. The most important thing is to communicate well with family. After all, mother-in-law and husband are always participants, not bystanders.
Of course, if the mother-in-law’s ideas are old and hard to convince, it is better to invite her sister-in-law on the premise of thinking for herself.
If the mother-in-law is a person who is willing to accept new ideas, it is not a pleasure to let her participate in parenting.
Whatever the choice is, it is based on love and responsibility for children. If we can’t reach a consensus, we should try to communicate and understand in the future, so as not to hurt family harmony.
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