In addition to poetry and distance, life also has sex. Postpartum new father and new mother, the body has been “isolated” for a long time. It’s time to be close, and the relationship can’t be cooled down. But the new mother has a special body after childbirth. How can I allow the new father to do whatever he wants? Today I still have the cheek to nag.

Nagging 1: postpartum sex should not be too early

Having sex early can cause many gynecological diseases. If there is vaginal laceration and cervical tear, or lateral episiotomy, it is also prone to pain, bleeding and organ damage, affecting wound healing. Moreover, the estrogen level in the new mommy is low, the vagina is dry and elastic, and starting sex early is easy to damage the vagina.

Tip: if you still feel the perineal wound stiff and swollen after 6 weeks of delivery, you can wash and massage it with warm water when taking a bath to promote scar softening.

Daodao 2: be careful about the first “intimate contact” after delivery

The new mommy’s cervix and vaginal mouth secrete less lubricant. Therefore, during the first “intimate contact” after childbirth, the husband should have more romantic and gentle “ex ante play”, and be sure to move gently and don’t be impatient. Because the husband’s abstinence time is long, it is easy to move fiercely, causing perineal tissue injury and bleeding.

Tip: during the postpartum period, the glands that lubricate the vagina often lose their normal function. When you feel vaginal dryness, you can use lubricant or ointment.

Daodao 3: grasp the best time for sexual life recovery

After 6 weeks postpartum, the new mommy should go for a comprehensive examination. If the reproductive organs recover well and feel ready at the same time, this is the best time to resume sexual life.

Tip: when a new mommy lacks interest, dislike or has many doubts about sex life, the husband should understand and wait until she can accept it. New mothers should also be more considerate of their husband and try their best to cooperate with her husband. If not handled properly, it is easy to have emotional cracks.

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