There is a Greek proverb that goes: love, love his/her scars. This sentence is perfect for someone who has just become a new mother and father. Can he accept the scar left after childbirth? How can you start your sexual life again? Let’s share some of the “sexual bliss” lives of new mothers and fathers together!>> Encyclopedia of Postpartum Sexual Life Knowledge
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Story 1: Pain Makes Me Fear
Remembering the pain I experienced for the first time after giving birth now is terrifying to me. The pain greatly exceeded my psychological preparation. After that, I didn’t dare to be with my husband for a long time, and he seemed extremely cautious. We even had emotional issues for nearly a year due to this matter. I am a person who is very afraid of pain. During childbirth, I firmly demand painless childbirth, but my various conditions are very standard, so I can only choose natural childbirth. But because it is natural production, it is inevitable to leave an incision on the perineum. I don’t know what the reason is, the incision has been causing a dull pain. I often imagine that the perineal wound has opened during sexual activity, and I am forced to sew it again. The feeling is really bad.
Story 2: He Loves My Scar
Speaking of it, it’s quite embarrassing. I had a cesarean section, so I had a “big bug” in my stomach. Therefore, when it comes to having sexual intercourse with my husband for the first time after childbirth, I was very sensitive and nervous, worried that he might not accept my changes. So even though my husband hinted after the baby was 100 days old, I still dare not take the initiative to mention this matter. But as I expected, my husband not only didn’t dislike this ugly scar, but also said to me with a touch: Thank you very much. I am really moved, all the hard work and discomfort brought about by production have been forgotten to the skies. So our first sexual intercourse after giving birth is still very ‘happy’. This experience has become a catalyst for our emotional upgrading, and all my worries and concerns have disappeared.
Story 3 is about to have sexual intercourse for the first time after giving birth, afraid
In just a few days, it will be the day when I have had a cesarean section for three months. My husband has been looking forward to this day for a long time. From conception to giving birth, we did not have sexual intercourse for a whole year. I understand the mood he is looking forward to, but personally, my heart is very complex, feeling both worried and afraid.
Many friends and some “passersby” have told me that the first time postpartum can be very painful, which is also the beginning of gynecological diseases. I’m really scared now, but I don’t want my husband to know my feelings, it’s very contradictory!
Story 4: The feeling of falling in love again, really good!
I have a natural delivery and have never had a lateral incision, so I am considered the one who has recovered better. My husband is a relatively rational man. Although he is also looking forward to this “romance” after a year, he has not shown particularly urgency. He always says, “Your physical health is the main concern, I have no problem. So his tolerance gave me a lot of comfort. On a peaceful night, our baby slept sweetly in the small bed. Looking at his angelic smile, we felt a sense of happiness and encouraged each other to live a good life and strive to raise our baby in the future. That was the day I started my first “sexual” life after giving birth. I feel great, just like when I first fell in love, happy, sweet, and unforgettable.
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