Although the new mother recovers slowly after childbirth, her sexual desire is still standing still and there is a phenomenon of sexual indifference. While pouring cold water on the new father, it has more or less adverse effects on the new mother, both physically and psychologically. So, what should the new mother and father do to eliminate the obstacle of sexual intercourse after childbirth?
After all: why is postpartum sexual apathy?
1. Premature recovery of sexual life
In the process of October pregnancy and delivery, women’s physical condition, especially the condition of reproductive system, will change greatly. Before the various organs of the body return to the normal level, the new mother’s sexual desire level is relatively low, and it is inevitable that her enthusiasm for husband and wife’s life is not high. If the husband does not take this into account and still requires to live a husband and wife life, it will not only cause damage to the wife’s body, but also have a negative impact on the new mother’s psychology, making the new mother gradually less and less interested in husband and wife life.
2. Xinma is too tired
Due to the need to take care of children, housework, physical and mental fatigue, sexual intercourse is often more than enough.
3. Reproductive system diseases or injuries of new mothers
The vaginal mechanical injury and scar caused by the injury during delivery will cause endless pain during sexual intercourse and reduce its pleasure. In addition, some diseases, such as vaginitis and pelvic inflammation, will also reduce the sexual desire of new mothers.
4. The new mother is too anxious
When postpartum women accept sex life, they often have many concerns, such as fear of pregnancy due to inadequate contraceptive measures, and fear that the wound will be infected due to living a husband and wife life. In addition, some women feel that after giving birth to a child, their figure is out of shape, and they are no longer liked by their husbands; Or when she first became a mother, she devoted herself to taking care of her children and didn’t care about men and women, which will lead to the decline of new mothers’ sexual desire.
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