After childbirth, the family took care of the new mummy, always worried about their cold. In fact, new moms are not only physically weak, but also emotionally vulnerable. They often suffer from “emotional cold” – postpartum depression. Taking care of the baby just born is a very heavy chore, which needs the help of the family. In the familiar environment and loved ones of the mother’s family, they can help the new mother to resolve the feeling of helplessness in taking care of the baby, and can effectively alleviate the postpartum depression of the new mother.
Postpartum should have sufficient sleep and rest time, excessive sleepiness directly affects the mood of new mothers. Minimize unnecessary interruptions, especially visits from family and friends.
The health of mothers and newborns should be put at the top of the list, especially for those mothers who have left the hospital 48 hours after childbirth and have not fully recovered, they need to rest, care, and a private space to get close to their children. Completely prevent family and friends from coming to see the children. It’s inhuman and unrealistic.
In order to avoid too many people visiting at the same time, or guests staying too long, it is necessary to establish a visit schedule. Negotiate with both parents before the birth of the child to make sure they have the same time to visit the child. Apart from close relatives, other people who want to visit are better off waiting for a week or even a month.
Another tip to remind visitors not to stay too long is to put on your pajamas (clean and beautiful, of course), so that guests will realize that you need to rest immediately. Of course, you can also say to the guests: sorry, it’s time to feed the baby. Remind them that you need private space. Or form a firm alliance with your husband and make some secret signs. For example, if you keep yawning, you will remind him to find a way to let the guests leave.
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Page 1: don’t let too many people disturb you after childbirth
Page 2: identify with the role of mother as soon as possible
Page 3: it’s better to go back to your mother’s home for puerperium
Page 4: new dad should be more considerate